Longtime tarot reader, former psychotherapist, Tibetan Buddhist teacher, and stage manager who has been dead three times puts focus on the best outcome of the situation. I am non-squeamish and have heard and done A Lot–I know that sometimes, as Marilyn Manson says, “Complicated’s understated”. I keep things strictly confidential and private except if major crimes are planned etc.–the usual ethics mentioned below apply.
I’ll look at pretty much any situation involving the being in front of me and what they might benefit from looking at or being aware of to promote the best outcome of their situation. My focus tends to be pithy, humane and honest, with cursewords. If needed, the cursewords are optional. I don’t do predictions or help in crimes or spy on others–the usual ethics apply and are elsewhere on my website. Examples of useful questions might be, “Let’s look at what I need to know for the best outcome of my: life in general/primary relationship/job/health and healing/getting more money/stopping or starting a habit/taking care of myself(ves)/getting the support I need/regaining sanity/a property transaction/etc.” Many times people tell me a big long story and that can be helpful, but the bottom line for me is “How can this turn out for the best?” It’s interesting to hear background and can often help clarify the situation, but it isn’t necessary.
Any of these decks will give a decent-to-excellent reading–the vanilla decks are not just for lightweight or simple issues, and the darker decks are not only for hardcore stuff. The range of decks is because the darker deck visuals are not appropriate for sensitive or younger folks. Many of my clients have severe PTSD and it makes no sense to me to be unnecessarily triggering to people’s genuine issues. If certain things will trigger any part of you, tell me in advance and we can work around it. Tell me your comfort level and deck choice. If all else is too scary, I have my Gummy Bear deck.
Deck choices fall into three categories.
1) VANILLA DECKS
A. Traditional Smith-Waite deck, has mild classical nudity and some swords stuck in people; the people are white white white, but not gender-specific
B. Gummy Bear deck–not scary for most folks, a range of colours. No real Gummy Bears were harmed in the making of this deck.
C. The Halloween Tarot–charming cartoon Halloween images, plenty of brains in jars and mad scientists and witches and ghosts and monsters, not babyish but not scary to most folks
D. Paulina Tarot–whimsical, dense rather baroque drawings, no nudity or clear violence
A. Heart & Hands Tarot–black and white drawings include some violent imagery, some nudity, psychodelic perspectives, mild diversity
B. Slutist Tarot–cartoon visuals of alternatives lifestyles, including sexworkers, plenty of nudity of all genders, goth, BDSM folks, poly, diverse in many ways, etc. Includes representation of self-harm.
3) ARMA***** deck
Named after a song by Marilyn Manson (the title of which contains cursing so I do not type it out in public), this deck was put together by me of about 300 cards. Some of the visuals may be alarming and graphic to some viewers. THIS DECK IS ONLY RECOMMENDED TO MATURE AUDIENCES WHO WANT TO ADDRESS SOME REAL ISSUES. Not every card is harrowing to the average viewer, and this deck works best for serious issues and mature perspectives. The range of diversity is really good. It is not a novelty shock deck by any means and would be really disappointing if that is your goal. (Insider tip: for naughty and nudie and alternative-lifestyle cartoon visuals while still getting a helpful reading, go for the Slutist deck.) Try the arma*** deck if you want Even More For Real And Subtle On Many Levels. YMMV.
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Oh, and I recommend not coming for readings more often than about once a month, since that gives time for you to have seen what helps and what worked out over time, while not getting dependent on me. I want my clients to enjoy their readings and to really get the insight that they need to help themselves and to understand their situations. Empowerment is much better, in my view, than trying to get people dependent on me for frequent readings!
If you’re interested in booking a reading with me at my Kingston office, send me an email to laughingdakini at twc.com, and we’ll set it up. I will be there as of February, 2020, and look forward to seeing old and new clients. Meanwhile I still am in downtown Woodstock.